Moving Gracefully Through Upsets

I am a quantum forgiveness coach who began from childhood searching for answers for why suffering/discomfort exists and why I couldn't remember where I came from before being born. (Amnesia and that suffering is meant to be a natural part of life just didn't make intuitive sense to me, as it hasn't made sense to many who have undertaken a search for cause/enlightenment.) I now share about the split-mind or the "dreamtime of the mind" of humanity as describe in A Course in Miracles and ancient teachings, from native teachings to the oldest Zen poem. There are many tools available to help us enlighten the split-off part of the mind. Here is one I found utterly transformational:

Fear/resistance/upset in the mind is not real, but it is part of our separation consciousness (here in the dreamtime we get to play at "being independent of One"). Therefore fear/upset is actually only strong at the beginning of the sensation, but that if we don't pay attention to it and simply allow the waves of discomfort to pass through us, they dissolve because without our attention (our God-power) they simply cannot survive. The implication of this information is tremendous, especially for children, but for all of us. I'm an adult, so I'm a bit more hardwired towards believing my fear/discomfort, but I'm learning to pay it no mind! What is being discovered is the young ones can be helped to recognize that all upsets in grown-ups and in children are not nearly so real as our ego/fear-mind loves to have us believe. The key piece - and this is HUGE - is that a child, just like a grown-up, needs to feel very safe and honored to even consider such an idea. In other words, we need to have our experience of discomfort honored and validated and not be judged or criticized for it as being silly or unimportant no matter what our age. We need to recognize, as A Course in Miracles so clearly states, that all upsets and resulting behaviors are a call for Love. If we do not honor our experience here inside separation consciousness the split-psyche/the fear in our mind rebels, at least until a student understands what is occurring. The split-off psyche simply goes into believing the fear rather than the Light, and either consciously and/or unconsciously, feels unsafe, or as it if won't exist if it doesn't "feel" itself, even if the feeling is upset, or that we or someone else doesn't matter or is wrong or broken. In Truth, only Light remains when we allow the fear in our mind to come up and dissolve as the nothingness that it is.

We're getting it. The more we focus on the Light, the more we are waking up.

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